An odd and somewhat off-base view of sex and traditional relationships. It furthers bad stereotypes and I'm not sure what it's advocating. If it's advising men to stay with their wives, why the photos of seductive potential paramours? I can see the other readers were equally disenchanted. I think the writer is a 30-something male from a "traditional" society who is confused by American nuance and ambiguity, and so we get this muddled amd wrong-headed essay. At least the comments all reject it, although at 868 claps our disdain is not exactly unanimous.